Maternity ward No. 25 former medical unit. Maternity ward

My son turned 18 last week. He is in 11th grade. I hope he gets a scholarship and studies well. BM no longer wants to pay alimony. I paid 30-35t. It had long been agreed that he would not reduce payments, since in his second marriage he also had a child. And I will save my son’s education from alimony. But a couple of years ago, my new husband and I bought an apartment with a mortgage and we pay part of the payments from alimony. I also have a child of kindergarten age. That's why I don't work, I get sick often. My son wants to go to enroll in the city where BM lives. And bm is against it. Have you been able to negotiate with the bankers so that they help with money after 18 years?

Irina Krasavina

Girls. Help my sick brain. I am currently in the process of depriving my brother of parental rights. I contacted guardianship, collected papers from the hospital, the police, references from the school and kindergarten, which my younger niece used to go to, with last place brother's work. There is evidence from neighbors and his friend that he drinks and does not work. The guardianship authorities assessed the living conditions of us and our brother. He is against deprivation of rights, he said that he would stop drinking and take the children for himself. But... one nuance became clear. My brother now lives with the same lady, I knew this for a long time, they drink together, they both don’t work. And this lady is now pregnant, and as I understand it, they want to sign.
Putting aside my shock at the situation and the lack of brains of both, I am interested in the question. If he suddenly stops drinking (which I highly doubt) they may refuse to deprive me of his rights? Will he be able to take the children?

P.S. and one more question. Is it possible to do something about this madam? Well, I don’t know, maybe forced treatment or something else. She's pregnant and drinks((((how is that possible?
In short, I will be glad to receive any advice and examples from life.

***K***

Topics about traveling during pregnancy regularly come up on the forum; there are a lot of stories with a happy ending in the discussion. Today in Vesti there was a story about another madam like this, for whom everything seemed to be fine and there was no way to deprive yourself of your beloved holiday in Thailand. As a result, the baby is 700 grams, health problems both now and in long term, huge bills from the clinic, collecting money. One story like this cancels out thousands with a happy ending. Take care of your kids

Lizard

Good morning, my inquisitive and insightful friends, Vangas and Sherlock Holmes! I present to your attention a guessing game for a poetry competition that is festive in all respects. I suggest you use your brains and bring it to clean water our cunning cryptographers.
The field for scattering brains is here:

List of authors:
Arsalana
To live well
Sucker Punch
Quokka Smiley
Krysatulya
Lena Tokareva
Chuchundra
Yuka
Lizard
Brother Organization
Sofiko
Anonymous 1
Anonymous 2
Anonymous 3
Anonymous 4

So, let's go!

Daria S

Hello everybody. We're having a bad day today. The child fell ill on Monday coughing until vomiting and so Ra. Yesterday I had a very high temperature of Ra.
Grandma came to help us and shouted to me from the kitchen that she was dizzy, then she fell. I called an ambulance. They told me to put me on the bed, measure the pressure, (it was 150) and give me a capoten. And they said the call would be forwarded to emergency services. Okay, I'm sitting and waiting. Mom’s blood pressure is rising, it’s already 180, she’s red, 40 minutes have passed, I’m calling again, and as I understand it, urgent Care, this is a doctor from the regiment. I called the regiment, they said wait for two hours. What is this? What needs to happen for the ambulance to arrive? As a result, the regiment called me back and said that after my call they transferred the call back to the ambulance. The brigade arrived in another half hour. They gave me an ECG, an injection, pills and told me to wait for the doctor.
But. The regiment told me that the call to us was cancelled. I asked if I should wait for the doctor, with high temperature? They said he would come to me.
Question. Mom is lying there, dizzy, when will she be able to get to the doctor? The holidays are ahead, will she be left without help? This is fine? The neurologist comes on Tuesdays. They put a crisis and a violation cerebral circulation. The neurologist is treating us, they did the UBD in January, they gave us Cerepro, then they injected us with Picamelon and that’s it. I should prescribe pills.
Has anyone gone to a paid ambulance? Phone number, if I can find anything. Does it make sense?
What should we do anyway?

One of the oldest maternity hospitals operates at the city hospital named after Pirogov. They mainly provide obstetric care to women with diabetes mellitus or prone to it, as well as pregnant women with venous diseases (varicose veins, etc.), mental and asthmatic. But there is also no refusal for women in labor admitted due to unexpectedly onset labor (with the exception of women in labor with severe heart disease).

The maternity hospital has a capacity of 85 beds, an average of 3 babies are born here every day, and about 1,000 births a year. In charge obstetric department Zhuravleva Anna Dmitrievna, leading obstetricians-gynecologists Parkhomenko T.V., Lee A.D., Melkonyan A.D.

The prenatal ward, like the postpartum ward, is general, for 7 women in labor, and in the pathology department - for 4-11 pregnant women; The room has a washbasin and a refrigerator, the bathroom is on the floor. For expectant mothers there is a special dietary food, you can also receive food transfers from relatives. A maternity hospital is not a hospital; neither mother nor baby are forced to change into hospital clothes, and you can freely use personal hygiene items.

Taking into account the specifics of the maternity hospital, if a woman in labor has no contraindications, then during labor she can behave freely, whatever is easier and more convenient for her, i.e. sit, stand, walk, lie down, listen to music, film yourself, etc. Childbirth takes place naturally, under the supervision of a doctor and midwife, but relatives cannot be in the delivery room. There are no separate maternity wards.

Approximately a quarter of births take place by caesarean section due to the special specialization of the maternity hospital with pathologies of women in labor (this is 23% more than the Moscow average); according to indications, labor is induced and pain relief (epidural or inhalation anesthesia). If there are no contraindications, the baby is immediately put to the breast; support for breastfeeding is a priority.