What are men's biggest weaknesses? Male psychology. Signs of a weak man

Sexual activity is of great importance in the physical and mental health of a man. When this function suffers, problems with women, family quarrels, stress, self-dissatisfaction and depression appear. Sexual weakness can occur due to endocrine diseases, inflammation of the prostate gland, and sexually transmitted infectious diseases. It is difficult to eliminate such a serious problem because men do not always want to talk about it. Sexual dysfunction is dealt with by a sex therapist, and if the disease is caused by an infectious process, consultation with related specialists will be required.

Symptoms of sexual weakness in men

We can talk about male weakness when a man cannot begin, perform or complete sexual intercourse. In other words, this condition is called impotence or erectile dysfunction.

Important! Impotence in 80% of cases appears due to previous diseases or congenital pathology. Only 20% is caused by psychogenic factors

Doctors divide erectile dysfunction into two types: organic and psychogenic, described in the table.

Dysfunction	Features	Associated symptoms
Organic	begins gradually; constant; appears after any illness or taking medications; lack of morning and night erections; During sex, blood flow to the penis decreases sharply	periodic pain above the pubis; difficulty urinating; the appearance of cloudy urine; discharge from the genitals with an unpleasant odor; change in urine stream; frequent urination at night; difficulty ejaculating (ejaculation)
Psychogenic	starts suddenly; worries periodically; appears during stress, emotional arousal; night and morning erections are not impaired; During sexual intercourse, the blood supply to the genital organ is sufficient	fatigue; prostration; irritability; constant excitement, worry; indifference to women; frequent thoughts of inferiority; lack of desire to have sex; depression

Such complaints should inevitably lead a man to a doctor for treatment of sexual weakness.

Causes of sexual dysfunction

When a man’s sexual function suffers, not only his physical health suffers, but also his psyche. Doctors consider the following causes of male sexual weakness:

Genital tract infection. If a man often changes sexual partners and does not use condoms, the addition of a sexually transmitted infection is guaranteed. Chlamydia, gonorrhea, gonorrhea, syphilis and trichomoniasis can cause premature impotence.
Prostatitis most often affects men over 40 years of age. This disease appears as a result of a bacterial infection, prostate adenoma, or prolonged absence of sexual relations.
Hypogonadism, congenital malformations. Due to cryptorchidism (undescended testicles into the scrotum), testicular hypotrophy, and congenital inguinal hernias, the function of the male genital organs suffers. As a boy gets older, testosterone production decreases in his body. At the age of 14-17 years, a young man stops in growth, physical and mental development. Often such men are infertile.
Spinal injuries lead to the cessation of impulses passing through the nerves. Men who are paralyzed in the lower part of the body have reduced or no sexual activity.
Atherosclerosis of the arteries of the lower aorta (Leriche syndrome). With this disease, blockage of the aortic cavity with plaques occurs, blood supply to the genital organs decreases and impotence appears, pain in the perineum and lower extremities after walking.
During operations on the rectum, prostate, and bladder, the genital nerves are occasionally damaged. About 60% of such operations result in symptoms of sexual weakness in men.
Diabetes mellitus disrupts the blood supply and innervation of the genital organs.
Alcohol and smoking abuse reduces libido and inhibits the production of male hormones.
The use of certain drugs (glucocorticoids, testosterone, cytostatics) inhibits the synthesis and release of sex hormones into the blood and affects the quality of sperm.
Oncology of the male genital organs requires radical surgery and the prescription of strong chemotherapy drugs that can stop the production of one’s own hormones.

In addition to these reasons, the appearance of sexual weakness can be influenced by severe stress, neurosis and depression.

Diagnostics

Male sexual impotence requires immediate diagnosis and treatment. This pathology is dealt with by a sex therapist who will help you understand the problem and sometimes refer you to a specialist.

The diagnostic algorithm for sexual weakness is as follows:

Collection of medical history and complaints.
Examination of the patient by a doctor.
General blood and urine analysis.
Blood test for antibodies to sexually transmitted infections.
Microscopy and bacterioscopy of prostate juice.
Blood test for sex hormones (testosterone, estrogens), hormones of the thyroid gland, pituitary gland, adrenal glands.
Determination of blood glucose levels.
PSA (prostate-specific antigen) in the blood serves as a marker for prostate cancer.
Ultrasound of the prostate, bladder, kidneys.
SCT or MRI of the pelvic organs after injury, bone fracture, oncopathology of the rectum, prostate.
Angiography is indicated for atherosclerosis of the aorta and iliac vessels.
Consultation with related specialists: urologist, surgeon, endocrinologist, neurologist, psychotherapist.

Doctor's advice. Men over 45 years of age must have their PSA tested annually.

Sexual weakness can be overcome if you contact your doctor on time and completely trust your doctor. Sometimes patients hide their problem and try to solve everything on their own, but this only aggravates the condition.

Traditional treatment

Problems in relationships with women, constant stress leading to impotence, prostatitis contribute to the appearance of sexual weakness, which requires treatment from a doctor.

Folk recipes for combating erectile dysfunction include the following, described below.

To prepare ginseng tincture, you need a three-centimeter root of the plant, which must be placed in a bottle with 2 liters of vodka. Leave for 2 weeks in a dark place. Then you can take half a glass daily before meals, twice a day. This continues for 2 weeks, then a break of 7 days.
A decoction for male impotence is prepared in this way: you need to mix 100 g of yarrow, 50 g of calamus root and hay stuff. Immediately before use, pour 1 tablespoon of the mixture into 200 ml of boiling water and leave for 30 minutes. The decoction is consumed 20 minutes before meals three times a day for 2 weeks.
You need to mix 200 g of honey, lemon juice, three homemade egg yolks and 200 ml of cognac. The resulting mixture is consumed 2 tablespoons 2 times a day before meals.
Grind the rhizome of the yellow lily, add 5 tablespoons to 1 liter of boiling water. Leave for 20 minutes until it cools down. Drink a solution of 50 ml twice a day.
Grind 100 grams of calamus root and add it to 1 liter of vodka. You need to insist for two weeks. Drink 50 ml daily twice a day.
Pour 10 fresh nettle leaves with Cahors (500 ml), let it brew for 1 week in a dark place. Before meals you need to drink 1 tablespoon in the morning and evening.
The kernel of a walnut increases a man's libido. Take 5 nuts daily along with one glass of goat milk. The course lasts 1 week, then a break of 14 days. In total, you can take 2-3 courses in a row.

Important! You can use traditional recipes for sexual weakness only after consulting a doctor

Folk remedies can be used when there is no serious organic pathology of the reproductive system. If sexually transmitted diseases are detected, you should definitely seek treatment from a urologist.

Often women, especially those who have not yet been married, have a vague idea of the differences between them and the stronger sex. They believe that it is possible to correct some details in the behavior of men. And, naturally, they try tirelessly to eradicate what they consider to be shortcomings. Moreover, these efforts are very often meaningless and a waste of time and effort. And all because those things that we, from our female point of view, regard as a disadvantage, in fact turn out to be an ordinary male weakness.

Men feel and understand this world somewhat differently, and accordingly treat it differently. This is the nature of things. And women try to impose their worldview and force them to accept their point of view. When all attempts fail, we begin to get nervous, make trouble, and get angry. But why? You can turn everything in your favor, why bother so much? It’s enough just to know what male weaknesses are and how to treat them.

So what flaws, according to the female sex, has nature endowed men with?

There are no ideal people

If you listen to what women complain about these days when talking about their spouses, you can come to the conclusion that the topics that every woman touches on are almost the same. Therefore, men most often commit the same actions. Why is that? It’s impossible to divide the stronger sex and the fair sex into two camps fighting among themselves? Or is it still possible, but the goal of each side is to ruin the lives of their enemies? No, it's not like that. It just often turns out that we take a man’s weakness as a challenge and start making scandals even when there is no such need. As a result, we end up with an unpleasant atmosphere in the house and jeopardize family happiness. All this can be avoided, you just need to know what lies behind these male shortcomings.

For example, many men can lie on the couch in front of the TV for several hours and click the remote control every minute. Or just lie around and look at one point or at the ceiling. Naturally, this annoys us. He doesn’t want to do anything, neither take out the trash, nor just empty the TV so that we, our loved ones, can watch the series in peace. All you can hear is “now.” As a result, we begin to get nervous and scream, accusing our spouse of being useless and lazy, which is very reckless. Maybe your husband is just thinking about something, and perhaps something serious. And here we are, with our household chores. Let him think, maybe he’ll come up with something useful. Although sometimes it wouldn’t hurt for him to get a little shake-up, otherwise he really just shirks.

A man's silence is sometimes difficult to bear

Most men, when busy with something, absolutely do not perceive what is happening around them. We can calmly do several things at the same time and absolutely do not understand why the husband is not capable of this. This is because men think completely differently. They focus on one thing, and until it is completely done, they are not going to think about anything else. So, they don't have the ability to do anything else in parallel, otherwise everything will go wrong. Let him finish with one thing, at least it will be done well.

Many men sleep peacefully when a child is screaming nearby. Naturally, we don’t like this, and we constantly accuse them of indifference and are offended that they supposedly don’t need a child. And this is in vain. All men love to sleep well, this is their weakness. Well, the sleepy male brain cannot react to the cries of children, this is typical only for women, they have a maternal instinct that is responsible for this. Men don't have it. They don’t waste their time on such trifles, but they will give everything if your baby is in danger. In such a situation, the father will not spare himself for the sake of his child.

Most men can hardly find their shirt or socks, but they will immediately see a beautiful woman on the street. Well, for our part, of course, we are nervous and believe that the husband treats his other half with disdain. But in reality there is no need to worry too much about this. Men have poorly developed peripheral vision, so they may not notice a small thing, but it helps them notice a beauty. This is just a typical male instinct to reproduce. Here nature has done its best. A man may not even think of cheating on his wife, but he won’t be able to resist looking at an attractive person.

By and large, these are the most typical models of male behavior, which are classified as weaknesses and are explained by natural characteristics. Yes, at some moments they are very annoying, but these are such little things. If you are restrained and understanding, then all these rough edges can be smoothed out without much difficulty. After all, in our lives the main thing is not order in the apartment, but order in relationships.

Let it be better to have order in your relationships than in your apartment!

Now let’s decide what weaknesses of men can be ignored altogether, attributing them to the properties of male nature.

The main properties include:

Each of us has certain attitudes and conditions towards representatives of the stronger sex and towards relationships with them. These attitudes turn real men into ideal ones in our imagination, but in reality there are no such men. Nobody argues that among men there are dishonest people, unworthy, selfish and alcoholics. However, our conversation is not about them.

We are talking about completely normal representatives of the stronger sex, next to whom we can feel cozy and warm. Therefore, do not focus too much on everyday problems. Every man has a weakness - this is his woman, full of mysteries and surprises. Still, nothing else is worth anything. That’s why, dear women, if your loved one is nervous after losing at cards or annoys you with some little thing, don’t be so harsh, show leniency towards him. We are all so different, and that’s wonderful!

Drinking, weapons, sports, fishing, hunting, cards, cars, collecting coins, stamps - all these are male weaknesses, which are written about a lot in glossy magazines. But the biggest weakness, which is difficult for any man to cope with, even a eunuch, for example, who hates women, but despite this saves the green-eyed beauty Angelique in the novel by Anna and Serge Golon “Angelique and the Sultan,” are, of course, women.
And the weaker sex, fully understanding this, tries to the best of its ability to use men’s weaknesses for its own purposes, using its most important weapon - female attractiveness. Many women have the talent to find the right points in their man and skillfully pull the right strings, like in a puppet theater.
Just remember Milady from The Three Musketeers! This is a vivid example of manipulation by men in love who, for her sake, committed official crimes and even murder.
Have you decided to follow her example? Before you decide to manipulate your man, decide for yourself what exactly you want to achieve.
You are not as bloodthirsty as Lady Winter, your desires are more modest: well, a mink coat, a diamond ring, a small car...
Knowing the character of your loved one, choose the right model of behavior. After all, all men are different: one likes modest, good girls, another - daring and capricious. In any case, affection and cunning will not hurt.
Does your loved one like to feel their strength, to take care of, protect and support? Show your weakness and defenselessness. He will be pleased to please you. At the same time, having fulfilled your desires, he will also receive a feeling of deep satisfaction with himself.
Does your man lose his head at the sight of a woman's breasts? Let him see and touch her. He is pleased, and you can, seizing the moment when he relaxes, unobtrusively state your request.
Pouty, plump lips also work great, evoking childhood memories of cute, offended little ones.
Do you want him to immediately fulfill your desire? Capture his imagination with a sly look from under your eyelashes and seductively parted lips.
Do you dream of becoming the center of the universe for your loved one? Admire even his very small successes. Inspired, he will be ready to find a scarlet flower for you, to get the most beautiful star from the sky.
Try to share his circle of interests: support his favorite football team, walk his dog, delve into his work.
Do you understand that by arousing jealousy in your loved one, you will force him to fight for you with rivals and shower you with gifts and fulfill all your whims? At a party, smile at someone, start a lively conversation with someone, and disappear, briefly, from his field of vision, appear in front of him with a distant smile and a new glass of wine in his hand. Did it work? Just be careful not to overdo it! After all, what you need is not a quarrel and, especially, not a breakup. Just an opportunity to refresh his feelings, making him realize that you are attractive to others too.
The main thing is that you need to manipulate your man in such a way that no thought appears in his head that this is manipulation. Let him consider himself strong, condescending to your weaknesses.
But, still, if a man really loves you, no manipulation is needed. He himself will think about how to please you, what kind of gift will please you the most and will be very inventive. And if you let him feel your sincere gratitude, he will strive with all his might to “make” you happy at any time in your life together.

No one can tell what roses smell like...
Another of the bitter herbs will produce honey...
If you give someone some change, they will remember it forever...
You give your life to someone, but he won’t understand...
© Omar Khayyam
Men's weaknesses that women brazenly take advantage of
Making love for a man means enjoying a woman with all the senses a person has. Therefore, if a woman wants exactly this, then she must please a man with all his senses: sight, hearing, smell, touch and taste.
Her whole body must be a perfectly tuned instrument for this. First of all, this is the ideal cleanliness of the whole body, the neat appearance of all its parts down to the smallest detail, especially hair and nails. For example, sloppily trimmed or dirty nails can turn a man off unexpectedly and inexplicably at first glance. More details on the website Mignews.com.ua...
Vision
For a man, the only significant sense organ in everything is vision. If you want to most effectively and quickly prove something to a man or deceive him, then the easiest way to do this is through his vision. This is true in all areas of his relationships - from professional activities and everyday life to sex. The proverb says: a man loves with his eyes, a woman with her ears. It must be learned by heart and constantly remembered. Knowing this, a woman can evoke the desired feelings in a man and control them. At the same time, feedback also works: the more pleasant it is for a woman and the man sees it, the more pleasant it is for him.
If you never appear naked in front of your husband, then you have too rigid ideas about decency. There is nothing indecent in the human body, only thoughts are indecent! Try to find out from your man how and what he likes about you, especially everything related to hair, both on his head and on his body. Many men love it when a woman's pubic hair is removed; this greatly excites them and gives the woman an appearance of purity and purity. Women of many southern nations have the custom of removing pubic hair, which is also more hygienic.
Touch
What could be more pleasant than touching elastic and healthy skin! Lips, fingertips, and all human skin react very sharply to touching a partner’s skin in an exciting way, increasing feelings. A woman's entire body is an erogenous zone. Think about it: can dirty, rough, flabby or acne-covered skin attract even a very beautiful partner? No! Armpit and pubic hair also cannot attract the desire to kiss these places.
Taste
Healthy, clean skin has a slightly salty, pleasant taste. But an unwashed body, in addition to an unpleasant odor, also has an equally unpleasant bitter-salty taste, which can poison any desire for a kiss even in a very loving and passionate partner!
Hearing
If hearing suffers less than all other human senses from troubles associated with uncleanliness, then, nevertheless, it occupies one of the most important places in the usefulness of love games, since caresses that take place in complete silence and accompanied by complete silence lose most of their charms than those that have a good musical accompaniment or, in the absence of such, are accompanied by the sweet babble of a friend expressing her admiration or satisfaction with gestures, movement, type of affection or position of her partner or his enthusiastic outpourings about her charms, tenderness, skill, dexterity, etc. Further. This component is more important for a woman than for a man, so good music is usually quite enough to solve this problem.
Smell
This is the oldest feeling on earth, which is present in any living organism from amoeba to humans. Smells can be pleasant, unpleasant and indifferent (indifferent). Indifferent odors can move into other groups over time. A person has an absolute memory for smell, i.e. If you once encountered a particular smell, you will not forget it for the rest of your life, while it is quite possible that you will not remember, even if you want, what exactly it corresponds to, but you will know exactly what type it corresponds to.
A person's reflexes to smell are the strongest, so you can most effectively tie a man to you with its help. Only young men who have not known the smell of a woman do not react to it in a strong enough way. The smell of pure female vaginal secretions can create the most powerful, long-lasting reflexes on you and, feeling them even in the slightest, elusive concentrations, a man may not be aware of what kind of smell it is, does not consciously feel it, but will be very excited and definitely react sexually to you on an unconscious level.
Moreover, this smell is unique, unique to you alone, therefore, having developed a reflex to it, a man will not react so strongly to other women in bed, and he will miss you, your unique smell, in order to really get aroused.
This is also common among a number of nations, where women widely use their most natural “perfume”, which is always at hand and which is 100% effective, for wedding rituals or attracting men. This is the best perfume the creator has made. It is better not to use perfumes in bed, especially strong-smelling ones, and if you still want to use them, then you should use them extremely carefully, in a limited manner and create odors only in the area of the head and use the same ones with one man in an intimate setting. unchanging perfume scents.
If a bottle of perfume runs out, then you must buy exactly the same perfume. The smells of other perfumes can be used only occasionally to create variety in your intimate life and nothing more. In any case, from your knees to your chest, only natural body odor should emanate from you. There is no need to use rare perfumes for these occasions, which you will not be able to buy when the existing bottle runs out. And in general, in such situations there is no need to change perfume frequently and randomly. This can only be done for daytime and evening outings.
The entire human body must be perfectly clean - men and women, and, first of all, the genitals. This especially applies to a woman who, without daily hygiene of the genital organs, is additionally mixed with the odors of the secretions of the sex glands, which in total can poison even the strongest passion.
Do not try to eliminate the smell of a dirty body with the help of strong perfumes and deodorants, this can only aggravate the situation and create an even more unpleasant “bouquet”. Healthy, clean skin always has its own pleasant smell, and, naturally, they do not repel, but attract partners to each other; you should be proud that you smell like a woman. Many men are immediately put off by a woman’s lack of cleanliness, although the man himself may not wash for weeks, writes 5eks.com.
Women who deservedly enjoy success with men and have learned the art of love have many little secrets on how to be perfectly clean in any environment, including being far from home, from a hot water bath. To do this, they use pieces of cotton wool, napkins or tampons, a bottle of clean water and similar items that can be successfully used after using the toilet, prepared in advance and constantly kept in their handbag.
You need to unobtrusively force your man to do the same so that his body is always clean. To do this, you can, for example, after washing or bathing, caress his clean body, repeating at the same time how desirable he is, because he is clean. You need to develop a reflex that the cleanliness of his body makes him always desirable.

From time immemorial, powerful men liked ladies with weaknesses. When a woman needs attention or needs protection, then the stronger half of society is interested. They immediately feel that they are needed and try to support and help in every possible way.

It’s true that women sometimes need a strong shoulder.

A woman's weakness leads her to happiness

There is a great phrase uttered in one Hollywood movie that says: “It is only when a woman loses that she wins in her favor.” One cannot but agree with these words, because by nature a man should be stronger.

Therefore, every gentleman likes to be close to the lady and protect her. Thus, most women were able to get themselves a good and faithful spouse. As a result, an educated family will be strong and friendly.

It is femininity and fragility that will always attract the strong half of humanity, which extols the beauty of strength. Such representatives of the stronger sex are good family men, as well as true romantics.

Otherwise, you may become not a loving soul mate to your spouse, but, on the contrary, an enemy and rival. Few people will like this model of relationship.

A man, having the instinct of a male by nature, reacts very sharply to competition and games. Many begin to have doubts about whether it is worth protecting a lady who can take care of herself and her partner.

The most charming ladies' weaknesses

All people are unique, but men have common character traits that are common to almost everyone. In the love front, this also works well for the weaknesses of female representatives.

According to statistics, men are most attracted to:

Weakness for luxury and grace. Almost every woman loves beautiful things, so all gentlemen like to give exquisite and expensive gifts to their lovers, who, upon receiving them, begin to genuinely rejoice. Such moments delight them and thereby increase their self-esteem.
The desire to accept some kind of help from them. Some fragile, sophisticated ladies are not even able to open the heavy door on their own. This is considered an additional reason for the gentleman to show his care and culture.

The modern trend is that weak men are much more common than brave knights. Women have only two options - to help the dreamy prince turn into a macho, or to become strong herself.

How to recognize a weak man

Any girl dreams of meeting a strong and decisive life partner who will relieve her of problems and worries, and will not create new difficulties. Knowing this tendency, weak men have learned to disguise themselves, and therefore their true essence may not be revealed immediately. To avoid falling into the trap, you need to remember these signs of male weakness:

Indecisiveness. This manifests itself even in small things. For example, in a cafe, he can study the menu for a long time, not deciding for a long time to settle on any particular dish or drink.
Inability to carry on a conversation. If in a dialogue with a man you have to constantly look for a way out of awkward pauses, you should be wary.
Lack of career ambitions. Weak men often work not where they pay well, but where it is quiet and has a minimum level of responsibility.
Slow reaction. A man does not know how to quickly make decisions not only in stressful, but also in ordinary everyday situations.
Has bad habits. Most men with weak character are addicted to cigarettes and alcoholic beverages.
He is in no hurry to legitimize the relationship. A marriage proposal from such a man can only be achieved after a series of persistent hints.

A few more distinctive features

Armed with some knowledge, you can easily determine that there is a weak man next to you. The signs are as follows:

He is characterized by sacrifice. A man tries to please everyone (or cannot refuse to fulfill other people's requests). This is usually done for the sake of everyone's approval.
Does not like change and conflicts. Moreover, this also applies to positive changes in life. A weak person likes to be in the “comfort zone,” even if it is not characterized by the most favorable conditions.
Suppresses his emotions and feelings. Weak people are afraid to demonstrate their state of mind. They prefer to experience all joys and troubles within themselves.
They love female company. In a male company, where everyone is successful and ambitious, it is difficult for such people. But with the ladies they quickly establish friendly relations.

Classification

Are men weak? As practice shows, yes. However, they are not all the same. We can distinguish the following types of weak men:

victim of mother's love. Being under the influence of an authoritarian woman, he cannot take a single step on his own. In addition, this becomes a serious barrier to building your own family.
Relaxed. This is a person who is unable or unwilling to take responsibility. Weakness is just a mask that allows a person to remain in his comfort zone.
can be successful and active in work and hobbies. But when it comes to women, all courage and determination instantly disappears.
Sensitive. This is a creative nature. A man is sensitive to all kinds of experiences. However, this does not mean that he is a weakling. Having built a relationship with a woman, a man can open up in a new way.

Why do men become weak?

Be that as it may, a man is born with all the characteristics inherent in him by nature that are inherent in the stronger sex. To turn into a weak and spineless person, you need to go a long way, being under the influence of the following factors:

Upbringing. Usually weak men grow up in families where a mother with a tough, authoritative character is in charge.
Problems with father. If dad was too scandalous and cruel, the boy, as a rule, does not want to be like him. As a result, as a man ages, he becomes increasingly spineless.
Relationships with friends. Having been subjected to ridicule and mockery from peers since childhood, by adulthood a man acquires a lot of complexes.

Why are there so many weak people?

More and more often, women complain that men have become weak. But in fact, there is a historical explanation for this. Here are just some of the factors that psychologists focus on:

War. The First and Second World Wars claimed many lives. As a result, the concentration of the male population decreased to 20%. Naturally, many children were left without strict parental upbringing. Despite the fact that a lot of time has passed, this has left its mark on today’s generation.
Transition to an industrial society. Previously, boys from childhood were involved in field work, where they adopted male experience from their grandfathers and fathers. Today this tradition is almost completely exhausted.
Education from women. Kindergarten teachers, school teachers, teachers in secondary and higher educational institutions... The vast majority of them are women. Naturally, boys (future men) adopt their behavior model.
Feminism. Women's active struggle for their rights turned out to be very successful. But the ladies were not only actively involved in social activities. They taught children to be different from their fathers.

If a weak and a strong man compete on some issues, in 99% of cases the winner will be the second one. Therefore, representatives of the first category immediately need to change something in themselves. To become strong, you should listen to these recommendations:

Change your lifestyle. The transformation should start with changes in appearance, daily routine and even diet. Particular attention should be paid to physical activity, which will help develop endurance.
Learn to make your own decisions. This does not mean that you cannot consult with anyone. But don’t try to shift responsibility for what is happening onto someone else.
Get over yourself. Having conquered your own weaknesses, you will easily be able to resist even the strongest opponents.

From weakling to loser one step

It extends to all areas of his life. This is why such people often become real losers. This is manifested in the following characteristics:

Feels sorry for himself. Instead of struggling with failures, a man actively looks for excuses.
Constantly points a woman “in her place.” This is a kind of self-affirmation.
Inability to handle money. The man does not have the skills to plan his budget. Thus, he spends more than he earns and is constantly in the red.
Considers life a game. If you can’t play in reality, a person is immersed in a virtual environment.
Doesn't know how to part with the past. In particular, a man carefully stores old and unnecessary things.
Exaggerates the seriousness of his own ailments. A minor cold or headache turns into a real tragedy for a man.

A weak man is an aggressive man

A weak man can be identified not only on the basis of known characteristics, but also by comparison with other representatives of the stronger sex. Based on such observations, the same conclusion always suggests itself. For a weak man, the woman is always to blame. Moreover, this may not be a specific person, but a collective image. That is, all representatives of the fair sex.

Failures at work? Women are to blame for sticking their noses everywhere and meddling in. Are personal relationships not working out? Again, the blame lies with the women who have become corrupt and unfaithful. Even if a man trips or breaks a cup, the blame will be on the women. And if such a man has a wife, she risks becoming an object of aggression. Weak people often assert themselves, suppressing their life partner. There are often cases of assault.

Is there a chance for personal happiness?

If a weak man, what to do about this problem? Is there a chance to find personal happiness? Yes, if you find the right woman who has the “mommy” type. Her parental instinct extends beyond her children. Such a woman feels an inner need to take care of everyone and everything. Naturally, courting and pitying her weak man will not be torture for her, but real pleasure and an opportunity to realize her life purpose. The result is harmonious and warm relationships within the family.

Infantilism and weakness are not the same thing

Men are much more likely to be infantile than women. It’s not for nothing that they say that they remain small children for the rest of their lives (even in old age). This type of person is characterized by the following features:

modesty and shyness, inability or unwillingness to engage in serious matters;
silence or inability to express one’s thoughts (and this manifests itself only in a public setting, and not among friends);
a tendency to tomfoolery (frivolous behavior can be observed in both informal and business settings);
inability to behave seriously in relationships with the opposite sex (which often irritates girls).

Of course, infantas can be weak. But this is not the rule. Often men who behave like children can muster their will and make a strong-willed decision when circumstances require it.

Conclusion

Does a weak man have a future? The first option is to connect your destiny with a woman with a pronounced maternal instinct. This will be the key to personal happiness, but as far as the business sphere is concerned, there can be no talk of any success. The family idyll will consist of complaining to your spouse and receiving the necessary dose of sympathy from her. Of course, this state of affairs will suit some people and will become a kind of “comfort zone” and a guarantee of stability. But, unfortunately, weak men are rarely happy. To be successful with women and achieve excellence in your work, you need to work on yourself, eradicating “feminine” qualities.